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Final verdict: these nipple clamps are a mainstay of our sex life, and we are happy we bought them. My partner uses them on me the majority of our play sessions, and we both enjoy the hell out of them. We've used these for many hours since we got them a year or two ago and we'll be using them for many years to come. They look as good as when we took them out of the package, and they work just as well. The finish hasn't been scratched or marred, the tension is just as high. Nothing has changed and the clamps remain wonderful.

The Extreme Restraints Padded Thigh Sling is a powerful addition to any couple’s exploration — whether you’re new to power dynamics or already deep in the world of intentional, structured intimacy. It provides: +stability +comfort +control +enhanced access +psychological surrender and beautifully framed intimacy As a Dominant, I value tools that enhance both my authority and my partner’s ease. This sling does both flawlessly. If you’re considering adding a position aid to your play, this is one of the best entry points: approachable, comfortable, and incredibly effective. This isn’t just a toy — it’s an invitation to lift, guide, and shape pleasure with precision. If you’ve never used a position sling before, this one will show you exactly why these tools become unforgettable. If you have, this one will likely become your new go-to.

The eXtreme Restraints Anal Hook Trainer with 3 Plugs is a powerful, reliable, and psychologically rich piece of gear. It’s not for casual novelty play — it’s for dedicated training, serious control, and shared growth. If you're exploring anal capacity, structure, and the deep connection that comes from anchored restraint, this set is a fantastic choice. The three plugs provide a clear, graduated path; the hook anchors you both physically and mentally; and the metal components are built to last. In short: this is more than a toy — it's a tool to deepen intimacy, command, and internal strength.

The eXtreme Restraints Beaded Anal Hook is a deeply compelling piece of bondage hardware for Dominants who want more than a plug — they want anchor, hold, and symbolic control. It’s a physical tool that allows internal presence to become a point of leash and posture, while reinforcing a power dynamic that feels intentional and real. From a Dominants standpoint, this hook enables me to guide not only posture and movement but also mental focus. I can anchor my sub’s body and direct their weight, breathing, and balance — all without needing to hold them manually. That frees me to reinforce dominance through tone, alignment, and subtle adjustments. For the submissive, wearing the hook under restraint is both grounding and exposing — they surrender internally and rely on my external control. It’s an immersive position-play tool that rewards trust and clear communication. In short, if your dynamic involves restraint, internal submission, and structured control, this hook is more than a toy — it’s a bridge. A bridge between physical surrender and psychological leadership. I highly recommend it for anyone ready to elevate their positional and bondage play with purpose.

The Extreme Restraints Shock Rod Zapping Wand is not for casual play — it’s a serious implement in a Dominant’s toolkit. It demands respect, communication, and restraint, but rewards you richly in control, sensation, and psychological presence. As a Dominant, I value it for how it allows me to shape energy: not just through impact or touch, but via deliberate electrical feedback. It’s a way to assert authority, test boundaries, and guide my sub with a unique brand of intensity. From my sub’s feedback, what stands out is how “alive” the electric sensation feels and how clearly they perceive my control with every pulse. That dual awareness — of their own body and of my influence — deepens the dynamic in a way few other tools can. Use it wisely. Communicate clearly. And never let the spark out of your grasp.

The Silicone O-Ring Gag with Nipple Clamps is essential for power exchange, layered BDSM scenes, and sensory play. It delivers: +Silence, submission, and psychological control +Tunable sensation and intensity through adjustable clamps +Flexibility for both beginners and advanced players +Integration with other bondage, sensory, and impact gear +Affordability (~$50–$60 USD) for its versatility and impact

The Stung Silicone Tawse is not just a paddle — it’s a refined instrument of discipline and control that balances power with care. From a Dominant’s perspective, it offers: +precision +adaptability +reliability, and +emotional resonance Whether I’m teaching endurance, guiding sensual discipline, or deepening our positional work, this Tawse is a pillar of my toolkit. If you’re a Dominant who values structured authority, feedback, and nuanced impact, the Stung is an excellent choice. If your sub values sensation that is present but not overwhelming, firm but safe, and direct but caring, then they’ll appreciate what this paddle delivers. In short: +This is my favorite tool in hand. +I cherish having it, using it, and watching how it refines our power exchange.+ I wish I could keep it by my side for all of our scenes — because when wielded with intention, it becomes so much more than impact: it becomes dialogue.

Both of these tools from Extreme Restraints are strong, well-designed instruments — but they serve different roles in a power-play toolkit. The Beaded Anal Hook is about control, presence, and internal anchoring. It’s ideal when you want a constant, stable point of internal connection, and you don’t plan on swapping sizes. The Anal Hook Trainer with 3 Plugs is about growth, training, and endurance. It’s a long-term commitment to gradual progression, with the flexibility to start small and expand over time. If you’re building a serious repertoire of restraint and control tools, having both gives you maximum flexibility: you can anchor firmly when you need structure, or train gently when you want progression. In my experience, using them in tandem offers the deepest blend of physical sensation and psychological influence. One anchors the body — the other grows its capacity.

The Lingam Glass Dildo Flogger is one of the most versatile, sensual, and psychologically rich toys in a collection — provided you treat it with respect, care, and awareness. Ideal for: Experienced couples exploring temperature play, dual sensations, impact + internal stimulation. People comfortable with firmer toys, precise control, and sensation variation (cold ↔ warm, soft ↔ firm). Scenes oriented around control, rhythm, contrast, and psychological layering rather than only penetration or vibration. Approach with caution if: You prefer very soft, flexible toys (silicone, gel). You’re new to glass or temperature play. There’s a risk of dropping the toy or using it carelessly (glass + hard floor = bad news). Overall: If used with attention to safety, cleaning, storage, and body awareness, the Lingam Glass Dildo Flogger becomes less a “toy” and more a tool of sensation orchestration — commanding depth, precision, and emotional intensity in a way few single-use or single-purpose toys can.

The Blindfold Harness & Ball Gag is a powerful, high-impact tool — not just for bondage, but for psychological control, vulnerability, sensory deprivation, and deep submission dynamics. If you and your partner want: +silence and speech restriction +sensory/mood control via blindfold +flexible integration with other bondage or play gear +dramatic psychological and emotional intensity Then this harness-gag combo is a must-have in your BDSM toolbox. Used responsibly — with communication, safewords, consent, and aftercare — it becomes more than just gear. It becomes a gateway to trust, surrender, and vulnerability. Because of its intensity and potential risk, I recommend it especially for sessions where you: +know each other’s limits and boundaries well, +are sober, focused, and fully present, +have previously practiced less-restrictive bondage, and +commit to thorough aftercare. Treat it as a sensitive instrument of control, not a toy.

The Palm Power Xtreme is a versatile, powerful wand vibrator perfect for solo and couples play. Its flexible head and angled handle make it easy to use in various positions, offering deep, rumbly vibrations. While it is not waterproof and can cause hand numbness over time, it’s an excellent choice for those seeking a discreet, non-phallic toy that doubles as a muscle massager.

The Extreme Restraints STRICT Armbinder is one of the most effective immobilization tools available for consensual power dynamics. It delivers: +structural restraint +elegant posture +deep psychological surrender and +strong reinforcement of Dominant leadership. It is for pairs who understand trust, communication, and the difference between control and harm. If your dynamic values: +discipline +form +focus +obedience and +clear hierarchy, this armbinder will elevate your scenes to a new level of intentionality. It is not a costume piece. It is not an accessory. It is a commitment to structured restraint. For Dominants who lead confidently — and submissives who surrender with purpose — it is a tool worthy of the craft.

Overall, I love this product. it works for any body part, as a vibrator, a dildo, a strapon, and it feels great! I was pleasantly surprised by the overall quality of this toy. The design feels well thought-out, and it’s comfortable once adjusted properly. The vibration settings offer a nice range of intensity, which adds to the experience without feeling overwhelming. It is easy to clean and seems durable enough for regular use. Definitely a solid choice if you’re looking for something reliable and versatile. The materials feel smooth and body-safe, and the straps stay secure without slipping. Battery life is decent, and the controls are simple to figure out even in the moment. It’s discreet enough for storage, and the packaging was subtle yet nicely done. Overall, an enjoyable and dependable addition to my collection.

Omg I love this. It's huge, vein-y and hollow with enough room for an the average penis inside it. I have owned this for a few years and have had many... "Adventures" with it. I adore it beyond words. My only real criticism is the strap on. I strongly recomend that when it arrives, the top puts it on and adjusts the strap straight away. This is so it's ready to go with the minimal amount of adjustmet when it's time to play. This is because the strap is made of rubber, and can be a sod to adjust in a hurry. 🤣 DONT TRY AND ADJUST THE STRAP WITH LUBE COVERED FINGERS!!! 🤣 (I learnt that the hard way) Other than that, HIGHLY RECOMMENDED 💋💋💋

This is a very attractive, high-quality product that would be a good pick for purely aesthetic uses, but since the fasteners clumsy, I don't recommend it for practical use. It also won't properly restrain a person with small hands because it doesn't tighten enough. Overall, I wasn't a fan of this one.